Ron wrote: From my prospective it comes down to priorities; my first priority is survival of the confrontation, my second priority is treatment of my injuries and then I worry about legality last. Its not a popular view point with the liberals or the courts but reasonable cause and reasonable use of force are purely situational. For example, my little brother found out his girl-friend was cheating on him and went to a friends house where she and the other man were at. He walked into the house and asked to speak with the ex-girl friend, the whole affair is complicated cause they have a kid together and when he calmly asked to speak to his X the other guy stood up in his face and he dropped the guy with an uppercut as soon as he stood up.
She called the police and officer on the scene took my lil bros side, saying that under those situational conditions the other guy was an aggressor and he was using physical intimidation which is a threat of violence. Another LEO could have seen the act as unprovoked use of violence; its all open to situational interpetation. Fortunately for my bro that LEO felt that since he a) didn't hesitate and b) the other guy stood up in his face for no reason; that my little brother was justified in a pre-emptive first strike. But he could have just as easily gone to jail if the LEO saw something differently...
You story about your brother still doesn justify anything. He not only was lucky to not have a different LEO. He was lucky the guy wasn't seriously hurt. He was lucky that the guy, or someone on his behalf, didnt come after your brother. I dont care if they had a kid together. I wonder what kind of a person hooks up with someone who leaves him in the first place.
I can tell you a simular story and the guy went to jail. In jail, he got killed. And for what, to show he can fight. That he didnt take no crap.
The survival of the confrontation doesnt just lay upon the physical application. Every situation is different. To also mention, there is a certain mentality and thought process one has to do, in some situations.


